Monday, November 23, 2009

BE A WINNER

In the book Creating Your Own Destiny, Patrick Snow told his neighbors an old Indian with his grandson. An old Indian was to give life lessons to his grandson. "A battle continued raging in me. Fierce battle between two wolves "said the old Indian told his grandson. "The evil one, he is anger, envy, sorrow, pride, greed, deception, inferiority, false pride, guilt, high-heart and selfishness. The second well, he is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, peace, kindness, generosity, empathy, kindness, truth, understanding feelings and faith. Similar battle took place in you, my grandson, also in everyone "said the old Indian. The grandson thought for a moment, then asked his grandfather "Grandfather, which wolf wins?". Itupun old Indian replied "What you feed".

Did you feed the bad wolf?. I'm sure you'd feed a good wolf. By feeding the good wolf, you will be able to face various problems of life, including business problems. It is true that feeding the evil wolf easier than to feed the good wolf. Evil passions of anger, envy, sorrow, pride, greed, deception, inferiority, false pride, and selfishness proud is the big bad wolf fodder. When you hit failure, difficulty or disaster, the best food is the patient. Most of the patient is imperative to refrain from evil desires and apart from its influence. Patiently forces you to think and act more intelligently. Patience is a bitter foods that are not easy to eat. Like science menuntuk need to learn to take patience. Starting from anger seriously and will eventually become a habit to be with anger. If his anger has become a habit, it will never again anger flared and also if already angry, so to quell anger is not too difficult. Someone who can eat such foods are said to have a patient nature, which will be the winner in the world and the Hereafter.

Qulub Mukasyafatul in the book, Al-Ghazali wrote that "He who is patient to obey God, then God will give him three hundred levels in Paradise on the Day of Resurrection future. Each level covering the distance between heaven and earth. He who is patient in avoiding the prohibitions of Allah, then Allah gave him six hundred levels in Paradise one day in the Day of Resurrection. Each level covering the distance between the heavens and the earth's seven seven. And whoever put up musibab, God will give him seven hundred levels in Paradise. Each level covering the distance between the Throne and the earth ".

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FIGURE-FIGURE CREATIVITY WORLD

"Creativity is the hallmark of world figures who have actualized themselves" said Abraham Maslow. Creative nature almost has the same meaning as health, self actualization and full humanness. Sifang properties associated with this creativity is flexibility, spontaneity, courage, daring to make mistakes, openness and humility. Creativity figures of this world in many ways similar to the creativity of children before they know the fear of ridicule other people, they still see the problem afresh without prejudice. According to Maslow these properties merupakat properties which often disappear after a person becomes an adult. People who did not lose self a fresh approach and this naive, or if you have to lose, they'll get it back in the future. Almost every child is able to create songs, poems, paintings, dances, stories or games of a sudden, without any planned or anticipated by the previous intentions. George Land reported in the Break-Point and Beyond, that creativity is 5-year-olds scored 98%, 10-year-olds scored 32%, 15-year-olds scored 10%, and adults 42 years of age scored only 2% .

Spontaneity is also almost has the same meaning with creativity. The people who actualize themselves more, do not be shy therefore, more expressive, natural and innocent. Usually they do not need to hide his feelings or their thoughts or behavior artificial. Kebranian requires creativity, ability to survive, be able to ignore the criticism and ridicule, and able to resist the influence of culture itself. Each character has provided evidence of the elements required courage in moments of quiet creation, as confirmed something new. This sort of recklessness, a leap forward alone, an uprising or a challenge. These figures also experience fear, but fear can be overcome in order to open possibilities towards creation. Humble Skalipun of new ideas and quick to admit ignorance or error, but still has a firm stance and are willing to sacrifice popularity to defend a new idea. They are full of confidence and self-esteem, so it can better focus on the task to be completed rather than maintain their own egos.

They are not afraid to make mistakes, including stupid mistakes. They think "like crazy" as a creative person. They are flexible, can adapt when the situation changes, be able to stop habits that are not good, able to face indecision and changes in conditions without unnecessary tension and does not feel threatened by anything and anyone. They are hardworking, have a lot of inspiration and produce real work worldwide. They always work hard, discipline and training. Being the children who is without sin, seeing the world with wide eyes, not knowing the fear of ridicule, failure errors which are guided by spiritual intelligence will make you a very creative person at the highest level.

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LEADER AGUNG

A month or 30 days also means 30% of people have been able to forget the trauma. We will reach 90% over the trauma after 90 days, so the theory known as the 90/90. God gives to man's ability to be able to forget the trauma automatically. Difficult times like this needs a leader who can be role models. Leaders at a time like this demands not only talk but act and went into the field and close to the people who suffer. Leaders who can motivate and lead their spirits so that they can rise again.

Anecdotes from the book of Islam, written by M. Ebrahim Khan told the terrible plague attacked Syria in 639 AD, about 25,000 people died. News disturbing violent outbreak Caliph Umar in Medina. He left Medina to Syria to help review those who were still alive at all costs. The journey to Syria through the Christian town of Ayla. He rode camels, accompanied by several followers. In order Umar identity is unknown, he changed places with his assistants. Ayla enthusiastic residents who wanted to see Umar flocked to the street and wondered, "Where is Omar?". "Here it is in front of you," said Umar with a double purpose. Caliph camel is slow and the crowd rushed to follow him, because the thought Omar was still on the camel. On the on the camel was assistant Umar. Caliph Umar sneaked into the house of a priest during a hot day it was. Umar used robe torn because many heavy travel, and he gave to his host for repair. Sew back the priest's robes as he returns Umar, he offers a new robes for the hot weather. With thanks, the Caliph 'Umar refused to take it and would rather wear their own robes. Bilal is known as a muezzin of Allah, then living in Syria. When he died, he refused to work as a muezzin, and handed it to someone else. A few years later he participated in military expeditions to Syria and spent his old age there. On the eve of departure Umar left Syria, Damascus city authorities suggested that on this last occasion, Bilal should be asked to carry a call to prayer. The man was elderly and their demand from the top of the mosque tower, sounds familiar it reverberate with the sweet and hard. Remembering the days prayers with the Prophet, the pilgrims who come late in sobs. Even with the Muslim army commanders drowned Umar as well as tears. It turned out great muezzin's call to prayer is a call to his last, because after that Bilal died. Called by the Creator. Great muezzin's call to prayer is the call to welcome the leader of a fair and humble, and close to the people who suffer. Great leaders are Khathab Umar bin.

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